Further to our G-Spot Navigation orientation for the nation... session, I would love to expaand on the physiological substrate of the female prostate. The jury is still out on the phrase-iology, but it's worth the guts and glory to blow this one out of proportion. At any rate, a female prostate? You may ask? Well, the G-Spot is one and the same sexperts say. Biologically speaking, the G-Spot otherwise known as the urethral sponge, comprised of up to 30 or more of those wonderfully keen Skene's Glands, are said to be homologous to the male prostate gland. What's more... is; the copious amounts of fluids that are released from these glands are similar in chemical constitution to male seminal fluid (other than the sperm of course!). This seminal proposal, is that the female erectile network, comprised of the urethral sponge, and clitoris with it's lovely legs, and the Skene's glands with their tempting tubules are enmeshed by a complex capillary network. Upon female arousal the clitoris hardens and expands and becomes erect, "her-ection"? Also this capillary network engorges with blood which provides the wondrous (endless?) supply of fluid that is ejected out of the Skene's glands during female ejaculation (aka squirting). For the unsuspecting the suspicion may be: Did you just wet the bed? in a "p" kind of way? Well no, not in your nation, but you rocked my world in a "g" kind of way. So if your intro-galactic-mission gets keen on Skene's, keep banging at the boundaries and apply the fingers of creation succesxfully. For safety purposes this message has been encrypted to ensure no parental super vision occurs, and if you can't be good, play safe! And, remember it's best to avoid family photos in the bedroom, that's no place for the in-laws, only out-laws of motley crew kind of sort.
More sex & info tips coming soon.
Wishing sexual health and fulfillment for one and all!
Sue Sabijan
Thursday, March 3, 2011
Thursday, February 3, 2011
V-Day Rhythmic Synchronicity?; Give Him a Gift that pleases You too!
Hello Everyone,
Valentines day gift ideas for the ladies! A common comment I often get from the ladies is that music just makes the rhythmic romance better. Here's a gift idea that can keep on giving; why not surprise him with a cd (or Playlist) of your favorite specially selected sexy songs. Yes, an overt sex cd! Let him know about your diabolical plot for self-centered satisfaction and how to play along; you get your needs met, he feels informed and powerful (why? because knowledge is power, and you just bestowed some upon him!) and the plan is that he's acquiescent before the detumescence.
You're in control, ladies, choose songs that reflect your needs, as far as rhythm and intensity, with a natural progression that follows your sexual response. Here's your chance to train your partner on how long to spend on intro, verse, chorus, climax, bridge, outro (you get the progressions). So the amount of foreplay you prefer can be signaled by a song or series that you respond to and that get you in the mood. To begin, perhaps something romantic, slow, sensual, dreamy with a slower rhythm (or not) that follows your body's arousal response, be cognizant of the time that it generally takes for your sexual response to build to frenetic proportions. Then when you're physiologically ready, for the physicists the big bang theory; bring in the big guns; aka, the climax material; the song that really floats your boat, and he can be the man in the boat! Count him in if you need to, that's why drummers are so sexy, it's all in the jeans!! And, don't forget the boxer's triplets, last week's lesson. Take him on a ride from Yani to Akon, and back (don't forget an interlude of Pitbull in the throes of Lady Gaga).
Sex cd outcomes: you feel important, valued and understood; he feels powerful/submissive (nice contrasting blend of vigilance/amusement, igniting excitement of novelty through confusion)
Ladies let this V-day be a romantic celebration of vaginal coitus, don't worry he'll be thrilled and inevitably satisfied as a by-product of your satisfaction!
Stay tuned (rhythmically?) for more sex and info tips coming soon.
Wishing sexual health and fulfillment for one and all!
Sue
Valentines day gift ideas for the ladies! A common comment I often get from the ladies is that music just makes the rhythmic romance better. Here's a gift idea that can keep on giving; why not surprise him with a cd (or Playlist) of your favorite specially selected sexy songs. Yes, an overt sex cd! Let him know about your diabolical plot for self-centered satisfaction and how to play along; you get your needs met, he feels informed and powerful (why? because knowledge is power, and you just bestowed some upon him!) and the plan is that he's acquiescent before the detumescence.
You're in control, ladies, choose songs that reflect your needs, as far as rhythm and intensity, with a natural progression that follows your sexual response. Here's your chance to train your partner on how long to spend on intro, verse, chorus, climax, bridge, outro (you get the progressions). So the amount of foreplay you prefer can be signaled by a song or series that you respond to and that get you in the mood. To begin, perhaps something romantic, slow, sensual, dreamy with a slower rhythm (or not) that follows your body's arousal response, be cognizant of the time that it generally takes for your sexual response to build to frenetic proportions. Then when you're physiologically ready, for the physicists the big bang theory; bring in the big guns; aka, the climax material; the song that really floats your boat, and he can be the man in the boat! Count him in if you need to, that's why drummers are so sexy, it's all in the jeans!! And, don't forget the boxer's triplets, last week's lesson. Take him on a ride from Yani to Akon, and back (don't forget an interlude of Pitbull in the throes of Lady Gaga).
Sex cd outcomes: you feel important, valued and understood; he feels powerful/submissive (nice contrasting blend of vigilance/amusement, igniting excitement of novelty through confusion)
Ladies let this V-day be a romantic celebration of vaginal coitus, don't worry he'll be thrilled and inevitably satisfied as a by-product of your satisfaction!
Stay tuned (rhythmically?) for more sex and info tips coming soon.
Wishing sexual health and fulfillment for one and all!
Sue
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
Naughty Navigational Know-how for G-spot Stimulation
Hello Everyone, here's how to wow your partner with some naughty new G-spot navigational know-how now!
Let me take you on a journey, imagine the compass directions North, South, East, West, that is how we will be navigating through the internal female topography of the aroused vagina. Upon sufficient engorgement, in other words, when the female is highly sexually aroused, the area known as the G-spot will protrude slightly. G-spot approach can be made from the North (just above on the top end), then from the South (just below) and continue in rhythmic fashion until the sexual tension mounts to high levels, follow it up with an East/West thrust, to change it up a bit. Also, initially it may be beneficial to keep speeds slower to allow time for build up of tempo as well, (we don't want to start full speed ahead, but rather save that for the time when things are ready). Learn about your partner, watch for responses and make up your own algorithm or pattern of directional know-how. Ok, now that things are heating up, try flicking the G-spot with the tip (glans) of the penis (popping the cherry?!), this is the time to go for the full monty, and hit hard with full thrusts. You may feel the vagina relax just a touch and the G-spot may also retract somewhat (similar to the clitoris retraction just before orgasm). This is the time for the pounce, just as a boxer does a 1-2-3, with the grand slam on 3, that's the time to do so and fast, right on centre with the big hit, make it a surprise and neuronal summation may support your efforts! North/South Centre, again, again, get the picture, then slide East/West and the story continues Centre/Centre. As if you're knocking at the front door with a boxer's movements, you're confident that someone will answer, and that wish-fulfillment will serve you well in this situation, with a sea of blissful female ejaculation, otherwise known as squirting (in the vernacular)! Boxing the compass and popping the cherry, have a whole new knotty interpretation now, why? because it's important to have sex and info tips, and knowledge is power.
Here's to keeping you up to speed, on nautical endeavors, stay tuned for more tips coming soon.
Wishing sexual health and fulfillment for one and all!
Sue Sabijan
Let me take you on a journey, imagine the compass directions North, South, East, West, that is how we will be navigating through the internal female topography of the aroused vagina. Upon sufficient engorgement, in other words, when the female is highly sexually aroused, the area known as the G-spot will protrude slightly. G-spot approach can be made from the North (just above on the top end), then from the South (just below) and continue in rhythmic fashion until the sexual tension mounts to high levels, follow it up with an East/West thrust, to change it up a bit. Also, initially it may be beneficial to keep speeds slower to allow time for build up of tempo as well, (we don't want to start full speed ahead, but rather save that for the time when things are ready). Learn about your partner, watch for responses and make up your own algorithm or pattern of directional know-how. Ok, now that things are heating up, try flicking the G-spot with the tip (glans) of the penis (popping the cherry?!), this is the time to go for the full monty, and hit hard with full thrusts. You may feel the vagina relax just a touch and the G-spot may also retract somewhat (similar to the clitoris retraction just before orgasm). This is the time for the pounce, just as a boxer does a 1-2-3, with the grand slam on 3, that's the time to do so and fast, right on centre with the big hit, make it a surprise and neuronal summation may support your efforts! North/South Centre, again, again, get the picture, then slide East/West and the story continues Centre/Centre. As if you're knocking at the front door with a boxer's movements, you're confident that someone will answer, and that wish-fulfillment will serve you well in this situation, with a sea of blissful female ejaculation, otherwise known as squirting (in the vernacular)! Boxing the compass and popping the cherry, have a whole new knotty interpretation now, why? because it's important to have sex and info tips, and knowledge is power.
Here's to keeping you up to speed, on nautical endeavors, stay tuned for more tips coming soon.
Wishing sexual health and fulfillment for one and all!
Sue Sabijan
Thursday, December 16, 2010
"I Want to Ride My Bicycle"; a possible interpretation of Queen's song
An interpretation of Freddie Mercury's subconscious artistic sentiments? Remember the last time you rode your bicycle, and the control you exerted through manipulating the direction of the handlebars. Now, imagine that your partner's hips are the handle bars, under your control at the tips of your fingers. Through your guidance, direct your partner's pelvis up towards you and then away through all the range of motion. You will naturally find some positions more stimulating than others, but this will change depending upon the state of sexual arousal, and for the female, her level of vaginal engorgement. With this super method, you have control without a word, and without breaking the stride; this is often commented by women as being one of the most important factors for increasing the state of sexual arousal "not breaking the stride".
Stay tuned for more sex and info tips on non-verbal communication in bed!
Wishing sexual health for one and all!
Sue Sabijan
Stay tuned for more sex and info tips on non-verbal communication in bed!
Wishing sexual health for one and all!
Sue Sabijan
Saturday, November 27, 2010
Question: How do I know if sex therapy can help me, or if I need to see a medical doctor for lack of desire?
Hello Everyone!
An important question that I have come across in my practice is whether to go to a sex therapist or a medical doctor about the sexual problem of lack of desire for sex in a relationship. The main indicator here would be whether you experience sexual feelings, thoughts, and arousal in any other situations. A simple test would be, if you are able to engage in self-stimulation and/or masturbation and experience some form of arousal. If so, this is an indicator that the physiology of the sexual response is working, hence, you are a great candidate for sexuality psychotherapy which will work towards improved sexual fulfillment with non-medicinal interventions.
Stay tuned for more informational tidbits.
An important question that I have come across in my practice is whether to go to a sex therapist or a medical doctor about the sexual problem of lack of desire for sex in a relationship. The main indicator here would be whether you experience sexual feelings, thoughts, and arousal in any other situations. A simple test would be, if you are able to engage in self-stimulation and/or masturbation and experience some form of arousal. If so, this is an indicator that the physiology of the sexual response is working, hence, you are a great candidate for sexuality psychotherapy which will work towards improved sexual fulfillment with non-medicinal interventions.
Stay tuned for more informational tidbits.
Thursday, November 25, 2010
For All the Questions You Can't Ask Your Mom About
Hello Everyone! I'm a practicing psychotherapist with a special interest in sexuality. I've seen countless couples who have been to me with issues about their sex life, and I am hip on the research that's been going on with human sexuality. I'm here to demystify all the questions you may have about sex!
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